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This entry was posted on 6/12/2007 9:06 PM and is filed under uncategorized.

Message From Courtney-

At 2:45 p.m. today, June 12, 2007, Mom passed away with Dad and I at her side along with a wonderful massage therapist from hospice.

We had just moved her back to her bedroom to get her more comfortable (she has been in the living room). She was really struggling to breathe and anxious. We gave her medication to keep her comfortable and she continued to struggle to breathe. The massage therapist was very loving with her and just layed hands over her in love. We had soft music playing and she encouraged me to tell Mom anything I had left unsaid. She asked if she were a Christian. I held Mom's hand and sat next to the bed as we watched her begin to breathe more slowly. I looked from her to the hospice therapist's face and finally asked, "Is she gone?" She said, "No, but it is close." I ran to get Dad. He came into the room and we held her and told her how much we loved her and that it was okay to go. She finally stopped breathing.

An outpouring of family came out to the house. The neighbors brought over a huge meal to feed us all. I have felt so loved today by family and friends, it is just overwhelming.

Mom will be cremated at Woodlawn Funeral Home in Lacey. We meet with them tomorrow to plan arrangements and I will keep the blog updated with service information. Thank you all for your love and support during this difficult journey. Our comfort now is to know Mom is no longer suffering. None of us ever wanted that and with that, we can have some peace. I ask for your prayers of comfort for my Dad as I know this has truly broken his heart.

UPDATE: Services will be held at the Woodlawn Funeral Home at 5930 Mullen Rd SE, Lacey, WA on Saturday, June 16, 2007 at 4 p.m. 

 

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    • 6/12/2007 10:48 PM Peri wrote:
      Courtney and family,
      My tears are with you. I am so sorry for what you have all been through, especially Kathy. My heart is also with you - the loss of someone you love so deeply is very hard.
      Please let me know if there's anything I can help with.
      Love you,
      Peri
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    • 6/13/2007 7:54 AM Sandy and Bob wrote:
      Our hearts and prayers are with you. Love Aunt Sandy and Uncle Bob
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    • 6/13/2007 10:10 AM Matt wrote:
      Dearest Kathy,
      Thank you for who you have been in all of our lives. Thank you for bringing such wonderful children into this world. Thank you for your courage and your willingness to share your journey with all of us. Dang dollar, you made a positive difference in this world for many, many folks. I am privileged to have known you.
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    • 6/13/2007 11:12 AM Karyn Norris wrote:
      Courtney and family...
      I am so sorry for your loss. I am, however, so thankful that Kathy is dancing in her new and perfect body with our Lord. Please know we will continue to pray for you all. We would love to bring over a meal.

      Blessings to you all...
      Karyn and Kathy
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    • 6/13/2007 1:25 PM Sara wrote:
      I am overwhelmed by your grace and fortitude, Courtney! You are an inspiring woman! I cannot say how much I wish I were there to wrap my arms around you and pray for you at this time. Please know that even though my arms can't be there, my prayers are! I will be lifting you and your entire family before Him who's grace, peace, and comfort abounds in times of struggle. I love you with all my heart, friend.
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    • 6/13/2007 2:42 PM Connya wrote:
      Courtney,

      I am very sorry for you and your family that your Mom is no longer here with you. I am happy she no longer suffers and I hope you all find the strength in the coming days to begin to cope and heal. I feel for all of you. It's been a long difficult journey for all of you. I am so thankful you had those last moments with her. Thinking of you...
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    • 6/13/2007 3:16 PM Francesca Woodring wrote:
      Courtney, Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless all of you. I know he has already blessed your Mom and she is in his loving presence.
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    • 6/13/2007 7:34 PM Jeannie Norton wrote:
      Courtney...I thought of you all day! I wore the ALS bracelet you gave me..and prayed for you and your family. It will be one year this Sunday (June 17th) I was going through what you are experiencing now. It doesn't matter how old or young your Mom is...it's a big loss that will take a long time (if ever)to accept. Just knowing she is at peace now..no more suffering..is what has helped me in my grief. I was so distraught when I couldn't do anything to help...am sure you felt that way too. Lean on Hospice to help you and your family through the days/weeks ahead. Of course, you're greatest strength is your faith and hope of eternal rest for your Mom. What a fighter she was...and what a champion daughter you are...be at peace knowing you were the best...God Bless You Always...and prayers of comfort for your Dad who has endured so much.
      Love
      Jeannie
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    • 6/13/2007 8:33 PM Ann Mitchell wrote:
      Courtney - What a journey you and your family have had, I am very sorry for your loss. I know it has been hard for you, but as I have read this blog, I have admired you for your strength and willingness to face this illness. You are fortunate to have been with your mom right until the end, I am sure she felt better because you and your father were right there with her. I won't be able to attend the service, but I will be thinking of you and your family this weekend. - Ann Mitchell
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    • 6/14/2007 12:47 PM Elishia wrote:
      Dearest Courtney and Family,
      I just this second read about your most special mom, Kathy. All of my thoughts, prayers, strength and love are with you during this time. If there is anything at all you need, please ask.
      Love to you and your family!
      Leash
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    • 6/14/2007 5:09 PM John Eastin wrote:
      Courtney,
      Know that the Eastin Family has you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. You've been through some very trying times lately and you're to be commended for your personal strength and fortitude. You are an inspiration to others and we all admire your character and personal integrity more than you will ever know. Understand that everything happens for a reason and surely it was time for your mom to go home where she can breathe easy, move unencumbered and watch over you forever more. Know that we love you Courtney and our thoughts are with you. jse
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    • 6/14/2007 7:09 PM Cecilia wrote:
      Courtney- You and your family are in our prayers. Your mom was a very special person and she will never be forgotten. I hope that you and your family will find that strength from family memories. God bless you and yours. If I can do anything please let me know. Love and peace to you - Cecilia
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    • 6/14/2007 8:02 PM janet bryant wrote:
      Courtney & Family:

      I am so sorry to hear of your loss! Your Mom was a great lady! You are such an awesome daughter! I know how much your Mom loved you and how proud she was of you.

      You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sending you lots of hugs.

      With much love,

      Janet
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